After I got Don certified as a therapy dog last summer with the
Alliance of Therapy Dogs, we were unable due to the Covid pandemic to
begin visiting people in traditional pet therapy settings like schools,
libraries, or senior residential settings.
As described in the
December 20, 2020 journal entry, I
mainly took him to outdoor events and pet-friendly stores like Home
Depot, Pike Nursery, and pet shops for practice greeting people and
spreading puppy love. I continued doing that this year:
This associate at Home Depot is one of Don's most
ardent fans.
People in those settings were also feeling the strain of the pandemic
and happy to see Don, but I yearned to do more for the elderly and
incapacitated who were cooped up in residential facilities and unable to
get out or to even receive visitors.
Last December I applied to a large hospice organization, Brightmoor,
which is based in a nearby county but has patients in senior facilities
all over the metro Atlanta area. In January of this year I
went through their orientation process and became an official volunteer,
their first pet therapy team. Orientation on site took twice as long as normal
because so many staff members wanted to meet Don! He was a rock star.
Don's a kissy boy. One of the
Brightmoor staff gave him this bandana.
Soon one of my friends and her husband also began volunteering
for Brightmoor with their two therapy dogs.
FINALLY: ENTRANCE INTO SENIOR CARE FACILITIES
I still had to wait until mid-April to start going into assisted
living and memory care facilities, but I was able to take Don to senior
day centers in two counties several times. The health safety protocols
at those locations were less strict than in more confined settings.
That was a start,
and obviously some of those seniors could also benefit from Don's gentle
puppy love:

More and more opportunities for pet therapy opened up during and
after April, 2021. By the end of this year, Brightmoor Hospice staff had
introduced me to eight different independent living, assisted living,
and/or memory care facilities in four nearby counties.
Don and I got so busy we had to limit the number of visits so we
weren't going more than two or three times a week!



At these facilities we usually meet with groups of residents in their
common living areas. We sometimes go into individual rooms of people
who want to see Don.
During visits I dress him up in one of his many bow ties, a bandana,
or holiday apparel like his Halloween lion's mane. That's the "dapper"
part of his therapy dog name.


At one of the facilities a staff member who really loves Don sometimes
has the memory care residents sing to us during our visits.
Don listens intently (below) and enjoys that as much as the
patients:

Don can read human body language pretty well and determine who
wants/needs to pet him. Generally, more residents want to interact with
Don than staff. Residents tend to appreciate the attention
more because they are more cooped up
than the people attending to them! However, some staff have been very
excited to see Don, and all of the facilities have graciously welcomed us.
We also have very positive interactions with families and friends who
were visiting the residents. We are there for everyone.
The next set of photos show some of Don's favorite fellas who live in
these facilities:




Greeting mostly sedentary seniors, and especially memory care
residents, wears Don out in 40-45 minutes, so we limit our visits to
that each time. I can read Don's body language and know when he's
"done." I want to keep the visits a pleasant time for him.
So far, he's always eager to get in the car when I tell him we're
going to "go say hello to people."


On our very first visit to a large memory care facility in April we
had the only negative experience of the year.
We were heading down a long hallway to one of the units when a woman
being pushed in a wheelchair came around the corner. She was wearing a
large, unusual hat of some sort and she shrieked at Don. Between the
hat and the shrieking, he got scared and began barking at her from about
20 feet away. Don rarely barks, and never in person at anyone. I was mortified.
I assumed such an inauspicious start would be the end of visiting at
that facility! I comforted Don in an empty room off to the side while
the hospice person and facility staff member comforted the resident.
After Don settled down we continued on with the remainder of the visit
OK.

I found out on the next visit (yes, we were invited back!) that this
woman loves dogs. Her shrieks were in happiness of seeing Don, not fear,
but when he barked at her she did become fearful.
She turned out to be one of his favorite people at this facility and
we made a point to see her each time we went back. It was mutual
admiration, as she was the only person this year to give Don a beautiful
hand-written thank you note for visiting her. It's a cute picture of a
tan dog with a red
heart just like Don's ATD tag! I keep that card on my desk in her
memory.


In addition to these senior facilities, we were also invited a few
times to attend outdoor training sessions with our local Southeastern
Guide Dogs puppy raiser group. Don served as a calm distraction dog and
role model for the puppies, which was fun.
He also helped fundraise for the school during Walkathon season.
Taking a break between duties as
a distraction dog
during guide puppy training at a
metro park
Sporting the 2021 Walkathon
bandana
Don and I attended several VFW (Veterans of Foreign Wars) fundraising
events this year near Memorial Day and Veteran's Day, where Don's lovable
demeanor and puppy kisses draw more people to the booth. Jim has been an
active member and officer of the post since we moved here.
The VFW members have sort of adopted him as their mascot. Because of
Don's influence, the post donates annually to Southeastern Guide Dogs,
with the money designated for the service dog program. Many of Southeastern's highly trained dogs are given free of charge to veterans
as service dogs, emotional support dogs, Gold Star Family dogs, or
facility therapy dogs. Although Don was released to be a pet, he is also
serving many veterans as a certified therapy dog.
Don posing with Jim's military
uniform and Viet Nam cap

One of several fundraising events
at the Peachtree City farmers' market;
Jim is in the center above, and a
little girl is petting a sleepy Don in the photo below.

The next two photos are from this year's 9-11 event in Peachtree
City. In the second photo, the woman sitting next to me during the
ceremony had reached down to pet Don. Look at his face! Hers was serene,
too.


Don can provide comfort in so many different settings!
We also went to the WWII Heritage Days event and Faith & Blue, which
featured first responders in our small city.

WWII Heritage Days event: Don
with Jim (above) and a re-enactor (below)

Posing by a fire truck at the Faith & Blue
community event
From April to December, 2021, Don and I provided more than three
dozen pet therapy visits to hundreds of senior residents, staff,
and visitors, and dozens more visits in other settings with people of
all ages.
I know from Don's interactions with other adults and kids that he
especially loves being with more mobile, active people. They don't wear him out
as fast as sedentary elderly residents and they are easier on me, too.
Kisses for an associate at
Petsmart
It's
important for visits to be enjoyable for both the handler and dog as
a pet therapy team so they don't burn out. My goal for 2022 is to find more opportunities at
schools and other settings for Don and to visit senior facilities less
often.
Next entry: photos and activities of our Lab pack - Don,
Casey, and Holly
Happy trails,
Sue
"Runtrails & Company" - Sue Norwood, Jim O'Neil,
Casey-Girl, Holly-Holly, & Dapper Don
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